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<channel><title><![CDATA[Blissful Bumps n Babes - Blog]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog]]></link><description><![CDATA[Blog]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 20 Oct 2017 20:25:26 +0000</pubDate><generator>Weebly</generator><item><title><![CDATA[Christmas Comes Early at the Coombe!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/christmas-comes-early-at-the-coombe]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/christmas-comes-early-at-the-coombe#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Fri, 18 Dec 2015 23:16:35 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Birth Stories]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/christmas-comes-early-at-the-coombe</guid><description><![CDATA[ Hi Bernie.&nbsp; I had my beautiful baby girl this morning at 8.54am. Labour only 4 hours!! Contractions were more or less 5 mins apart from the get go. After barely an hour labouring at home I was 6 cm by the time I got to hospital which I had actually envisaged in my mind movie!&nbsp; Didn't feel it though as was totally managing, completely drug free. Didn't even manage to use the gas and air! That's not to say that the pain wasn't intense near the end but I knew if I went with my body all w [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:311px;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:1px;*margin-top:2px'><a><img src="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/7443872.jpg?293" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;display:block;"><span></span><span><font size="3">Hi Bernie.&nbsp; <br />I had my beautiful baby girl this morning at 8.54am. Labour only 4 hours!! Contractions were more or less 5 mins apart from the get go. After barely an hour labouring at home I was 6 cm by the time I got to hospital which I had actually envisaged in my mind movie!&nbsp; Didn't feel it though as was totally managing, completely drug free. Didn't even manage to use the gas and air! That's not to say that the pain wasn't intense near the end but I knew if I went with my body all would be well. Natural 3rd stage too. Didn't fight any of the labour sensations&nbsp; and still can't believe it worked out so well. <br />Thanks so much for your help. </font>&nbsp;</span>&#8203;</div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Second time Mum gets the GentleBirth she wants....]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/second-time-mum-gets-the-gentlebirth-she-wants]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/second-time-mum-gets-the-gentlebirth-she-wants#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2015 20:53:08 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Active Birth]]></category><category><![CDATA[Birth]]></category><category><![CDATA[Birth Stories]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/second-time-mum-gets-the-gentlebirth-she-wants</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						  ,"Baby Noah arrived&nbsp;on Sunday. &nbsp;Thank you for all the information you gave us for about a gentle birth. It worked!We are both well and at home. &nbsp;My labour started&nbsp;on Saturday&nbsp;night.   					 								 					 						          					 							 		 	       &nbsp;I listened to the tracks and I was able to rest through the night. I prayed for not having a second stage labour overnight. Too tired. So next day the contractions returned. But only become regu [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><font size="3"><span>,"Baby Noah arrived&nbsp;</span><span>on Sunday</span><span>. &nbsp;Thank you for all the information you gave us for about a gentle birth. It worked!</span><br /><span>We are both well and at home. &nbsp;</span><span>My labour started&nbsp;</span><span>on Saturday</span></font><span><font size="3">&nbsp;night.</font></span></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:50%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-none " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0;margin-right:0;text-align:center"> <a> <img src="//www.weebly.comhttp://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/251579.jpg?234" alt="Picture" style="width:234;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><span>&nbsp;I listened to the tracks and I was able to rest through the night. I prayed for not having a second stage labour overnight. Too tired. So next day the contractions returned. But only become regular at&nbsp;</span><span><span>2:30</span></span><span>.&nbsp; With 5min a part. We went to hospital.&nbsp;</span><span><span>3:15</span></span><span>&nbsp;I was in the ward waiting for the delivery room. When they had the room ready. I was already pushing.<br />&#8203;The midwife asked me not to push until arrive in the room, I was to concentrated during surges and rest and push to do other thing that my body was asking. I just listened to my body and kept focus.&nbsp;</span><span><span>5:06</span></span><span>&nbsp;baby was born.</span><br /><span>It was a very quick labour in all fours position. I didn't lie down in the hospital while I was in labour. I found very painful and intense but I was determined to bring the baby out. I was in a mission and no one would stop me until the baby was born. My husband was amazed with my posture on the birth and he said - Well the course certainly helped!</span><br /><span>Thanks you very much&nbsp;</span><span>I can say that I had the birth I wanted: Quick and no intervention and with a perfect baby."</span></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to Create Your Healthiest Baby (& MUM)!]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/how-to-create-your-healthiest-baby-mum]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/how-to-create-your-healthiest-baby-mum#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2015 21:30:37 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Healthy Pregnancy]]></category><category><![CDATA[Nutrition]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/how-to-create-your-healthiest-baby-mum</guid><description><![CDATA[            PART 1: Nutrition &amp; Nourishment for PregnancyHave you noticed that when you&rsquo;re pregnant, everyone has advice for you?! And everyone seems to have an opinion on what you should be putting into your body.But nutrition during pregnancy is not just about staying away from blue cheese and raw fish. When you pay attention to what you put into your body while pregnant, you can really make a difference to your own health and the health of your baby now and into the future.I&rsquo;v [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-border-width:0 " style="padding-top:10px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:0px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/1447885819.png" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:25px'></span><span style='display: table;width:206px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:20px;*margin-top:40px'><a><img src="//www.weebly.comhttp://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/1440974720.jpg?196" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Healthiest Baby & Mum - Blissful Bumps n Babes" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;"><strong><font size="3">PART 1: Nutrition &amp; Nourishment for Pregnancy</font></strong><br /><br /><br />Have you noticed that when you&rsquo;re pregnant, everyone has advice for you?! And everyone seems to have an opinion on what you should be putting into your body.<br /><br />But nutrition during pregnancy is not just about staying away from blue cheese and raw fish. When you pay attention to what you put into your body while pregnant, you can really make a difference to your own health and the health of your baby now and into the future.<br /><br />I&rsquo;ve put together a handy summary of all you need to know to create your healthiest possible baby.<br /><br /><br /><strong><font size="4">Your Five Nutrient BFF&rsquo;s</font></strong><br /><br />This is the science bit! There are five nutrients every pregnant woman needs to make a special effort to include in her diet.<br /><br /><ol><li><font size="3"><strong>Folic Acid </strong><br /><strong>-</strong></font>&nbsp;You can&rsquo;t miss hearing about folic acid when pregnant. It&rsquo;s important to take folic acid supplements in the months running up to conception, but it&rsquo;s also essential to continue taking it throughout the first trimester. Adequate levels of folic acid in your diet before and during pregnancy reduce the risk your baby will have neural tube defects, such as spina bifida, by 70%.</li></ol><br />Food Sources of Folate:<br /><br /><ul><li><span>avocado</span></li><br /><li><span>dark green leafy vegetables&nbsp;</span></li><li><span>asparagus</span></li><br /><li><span>papaya</span></li><li><span>oranges</span></li><br /><li><span>seeds and nuts</span></li><li><span>brussels sprouts</span></li><br /><li><span>bran flakes</span></li><li><span>brown rice</span></li><br /><li>broccoli and cauliflower<br /><br /><span><strong><font size="3">2. &nbsp; Iron</font></strong></span><br /><span>- Iron is important throughout your pregnancy, but especially in the third trimester, when there is a marked increase in the the volume of blood in your body.&nbsp;</span></li></ul>It&rsquo;s worth investing in a good pregnancy vitamin and mineral supplement, which will look after your iron needs, in addition to eating iron-rich foods.<br /><br />Food Sources of Iron:<br /><br />- red meat<br />- chicken and turkey (especially the dark meat)<br />- pumpkin seeds<br />- fortified breakfast cereals<br />- lentils, chickpeas and edamame beans<br />- whole grains like quinoa and oats<br />- dark green leafy vegetables<br />- prune juice&nbsp;<br /><br /><br /><span><strong><font size="3">3. &nbsp; &nbsp; Zinc</font></strong></span><br /><span>- When pregnant, your zinc needs increase by 50%. Zinc is not just important for your immunity but is also the building block for our DNA, helping us produce and repair every cell in our body. So it&rsquo;s especially important for our growing babies!&nbsp;</span><br /><br />Food Sources of Zinc: There is no food higher in zinc than oysters - but you may prefer to stay away from shellfish while pregnant.<br /><br /><br />Other options include:<br /><br />- beef and lamb<br />- chicken and turkey<br />- wheatgerm<br />- pumpkin seeds<br />- cashew nuts<br />- cocoa powder, dark chocolate or raw cacao<br /><br /><br /><span><strong><font size="3">4. &nbsp; &nbsp;Calcium</font></strong></span><br /><span>- Your baby will require calcium to form its bones and teeth. Ensuring your calcium stocks are high will help you maintain your own bone mass and strong, healthy teeth.</span><br /><br />Sources of Calcium:<br /><br />- Dairy products, such as cheese and yoghurt<br />- Green leafy vegetables, such as spinach, kale and bok choy<br />- Almonds<br />- Dried figs<br />- Canned salmon and sardines (with bones)<br />- Seaweed<br /><br /><br /><span><strong><font size="3">5. &nbsp;Omega 3 Fats</font></strong></span><br /><span>- These are a little secret ingredient to your own happiness and your baby&rsquo;s healthy development.&nbsp;</span><br /><br />We&rsquo;ve been hearing (incorrectly) for years that a low-fat diet is the key to health and weight loss. But healthy fats help keep your hormones in check and combat depression as well as boosting your baby&rsquo;s eyesight, memory and language comprehension. &nbsp;<br /><br /><br />Sources of Omega 3 fats:<br /><br /><ul><li><span>Oily fish - aim to have 3 portions each week of oily fish, like salmon, sardines, anchovies, herring and mackerel. Go for wild, rather than farm-raised fish where possible. </span><br /><br /></li></ul>Pregnant women are advised to stay away from fish which may be high in mercury, such as albacore tuna, swordfish and shark (but you probably weren&rsquo;t going to be tucking into shark anytime soon!)<br /><br /><ul><li><span>Walnuts, olive oil, flaxseeds and chia seeds</span><br /><br /></li></ul><br /><strong><font size="3">Eat a Rainbow </font></strong><br /><br />Once you&rsquo;ve looked after your top 5 nutrients, you don&rsquo;t need to get too scientific if you just stick to one very simple rule:<br /><br /><br />Eat 5-7 helpings of fruit and vegetables every single day and make sure they are a mix of all the colours of the rainbow.<br /><br /><br />The deeper the colour of your fruits and veggies, the greater the concentration of nutrients and antioxidants. (Hence why vibrantly coloured foods like kale, blueberries, beetroot and tomatoes have been labelled &lsquo;superfoods&rsquo;.)<br /><br /><br />Eating a wide variety of foods also has the added benefit of exposing your baby to new tastes via the amniotic fluid, hopefully resulting in a more adventurous palate when they&rsquo;re ready to be weaned!<br /><br /><br /><br /><strong><font size="3">Get Things Moving!</font></strong><br /><br />You may already have experience with the pregnant woman&rsquo;s sworn enemy: constipation.<br /><br />An increase in the hormone progesterone during pregnancy means that muscles throughout the body, including your bowel, will relax. So food will likely move more slowly than usual through your intestines. In your third trimester, the weight of the expanded womb pressing against the bowel can cause even further difficulties, including haemorrhoids.<br /><br />The number one thing you can do to help is ensure you have lots of fibre in your diet. The best sources of fibre are fresh fruit and vegetables, legumes (beans, nuts, peas and lentils) and whole grains (porridge oats, quinoa, whole grain brown rice).<br /><br />Prune juice worked a treat during my own pregnancy (as much as I hated the taste!), as did adding whole linseeds to my breakfast. Linseeds soak up fluids to form a gel which helps push food waste through the digestive tract.<br /><br /><br /><span id="selectionBoundary_1440976526371_6218807364348322">&#65279;</span><strong><font size="3">Drink Lots of Water</font></strong><span id="selectionBoundary_1440976526371_8473392277956009">&#65279;</span><br /><br />If you&rsquo;re going to be eating more fibre than usual, then it&rsquo;s important you keep your water intake up throughout each day too (fibre without water will actually make things worse!).<br /><br />Keeping hydrated also helps prevent pre-term labour, headaches, exhaustion, dizziness and kidney stones.<br /><br />Keep sipping water throughout the day and limit caffeinated drinks. If you&rsquo;re unsure as to whether you&rsquo;re drinking enough, a quick check of your urine will tell you. Urine which is light yellow in colour is a sign you are on track. If your urine is dark and concentrated in colour, you are probably dehydrated.<br /><br /><br />One word of caution: drinking lots of fruit juice in pregnancy is not a good idea. Juice is low in fibre but very high in sugar, so it will spike your blood sugar and likely cause unnecessary weight gain.<br /><br /><br />It&rsquo;s best to stick to water or herbal teas for your drinks and satisfy your fruit cravings with whole, fresh fruit, which is full of fibre.<br /><br /><br /><strong><font size="3">Don&rsquo;t Eat for Two!</font></strong><br /><br />I&rsquo;m sure you&rsquo;ve been told this before, but it&rsquo;s worth noting that you actually only need an extra 300-500 calories each day while pregnant - mostly during the last trimester - no matter what your body tells you!<br /><br />Sometimes when you&rsquo;re pregnant you can feel ravenous for no good reason. (I remember feeling the need for two helpings of every dinner during my second trimester!) It&rsquo;s those hormones playing tricks on you.<br /><br /><br />At these times, it&rsquo;s best to ensure you snack on healthy, nutritious foods, like fruit, veggies, hummus, avocado, nuts and seeds.<br /><br />Another good option is to ensure you include a mix of protein (meat, fish, eggs and legumes) and complex carbohydrates (whole grains) in every meal to ensure you feel full longer and keep those cravings at bay.<br /><br /><br />Processed carbohydrates are not your friends right now. Your body has no use for processed white bread, pastries, biscuits and cakes. It will be treated by your body as junk - clogging up your digestive tract and causing weight gain.<br /><br /><br /><br /><strong><font size="3">Eat Whole, Organic Food</font></strong><br /><br /><br />At any time of your life, it is best to stay away from too many pre-packaged and processed foods. When food manufacturers prepare your food, they don&rsquo;t have your best interests at heart. Too many ready meals contain high levels of sugar, salt and fat - not to mention additives and preservatives that you and your baby could really do without.<br /><br /><br />This means moving from ready meals to fresh, home-cooked food. If you have been used to eating out or on the go, then you could see pregnancy as the perfect opportunity for you and your loved ones to slow down and begin to cook from scratch. There are plenty of great, easy meals that can be prepared in half an hour, or so.<br /><br /><br /><strong><font size="3">Why Organic?</font></strong><br /><br /><br />You may be questioning whether organic food is really worth the investment. But did you know that the average supermarket apple will have been sprayed with up to <a target="_blank" href="http://www.forbes.com/sites/bethhoffman/2012/04/23/five-reasons-to-eat-organic-apples-pesticides-healthy-communities-and-you/">48 different kinds of pesticides </a>by the time you bite into it?<br /><br /><br />We now know that pesticides do get stored in our bodies and can even be passed through the placenta into our developing babies. It is still<a target="_blank" href="http://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2013/09/an-official-statement-on-environmental-toxins-and-pregnancy/280020/"> unclear what the long-term effects of this will be</a>, but you may wish to err on the side of caution, where you can.<br /><br /><br />To receive an <a target="_blank" href="http://iofga.org/about/what-is-organic-food/">organic certification, food needs to be produced without using chemicals,</a> pesticides or artificial fertilisers. In addition, organic meats will be from animals treated humanely and not given antibiotics (unless absolutely necessary) or genetically modified feed.<br /><br /><br />If you have a local farmers&rsquo; market, get yourself there and stock up on all the gorgeous organic produce. This is the least expensive way of getting your organic food - and it also helps support local producers, rather than big supermarket chains.<br /><br /><br />If you&rsquo;re anxious to make savings, then just choose to buy organic for those items that are most heavily sprayed. Check out the list of the <a target="_blank" href="http://www.ewg.org/foodnews/">Dirty Dozen and the Clean Fifteen</a>. This will give you an idea of where best to spend your euro to make a difference, as some fruits and veg are more heavily sprayed than others.<br /><br /><br /><br />I hope you found this checklist of use. The very best of luck for your healthy, happy pregnancy!<br /><br /><br />Niamh - &nbsp;A Whole New You<br /><br /><br /><br /></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a href='http://createawholenewyou.com/resources-2/'><img src="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/5108705.jpg?250" style="margin-top: 10px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;display:block;"><span style=""><span style="">Niamh Gallagher is a Nutrition &amp; Health Coach, Reiki Master and Meditation Teacher-in-Training. She helps guide women through the big transitions in their lives. Her hope is for us all to have whole health and a blissful life - through nourishing ourselves with delicious food and connecting with ourselves through deep relaxation and mindfulness. She blogs at </span><a href="http://createawholenewyou.com" style=""><span style="">http://createawholenewyou.com</span></a><span style=""> &nbsp;</span></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Gentle Caesarean Birth in Rotunda ]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/gentle-caesarean-birth-in-rotunda]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/gentle-caesarean-birth-in-rotunda#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Sun, 28 Jun 2015 09:08:07 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Birth]]></category><category><![CDATA[Birth Plan]]></category><category><![CDATA[Caesarean Birth]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/gentle-caesarean-birth-in-rotunda</guid><description><![CDATA[ A GentleBirth story for all you gentle mamas and mamas to be!!!!Warning!!! This will be a lengthy one so you may want to boil the kettle now and get a cuppa on the go.Our story began in 2013 when we miscarried at 7 weeks; like most things in life it is only until something is taken from you that you then realize how much you want it.       And so began our path as a couple in their 40&rsquo;s to begin to have a family. Needless to say, it didn't come easy and after some months of trying we deci [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;z-index:10;width:310px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="//www.weebly.comhttp://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/1447886891.jpg?292" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;display:block;"><span>A GentleBirth story for all you gentle mamas and mamas to be!!</span><br /><br /><span>!!Warning!!! This will be a lengthy one so you may want to boil the kettle now and get a cuppa on the go.</span><br /><br /><span>Our story began in 2013 when we miscarried at 7 weeks; like most things in life it is only until something is taken from you that you then realize how much you want it.</span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div>  <!--BLOG_SUMMARY_END--></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><br /><br /><span>And so began our path as a couple in their 40&rsquo;s to begin to have a family. Needless to say, it didn't come easy and after some months of trying we decided to go and get checked out. Have the tests done, just to make sure we were in working order!! That way we would know either way and if it was meant to be it was meant to be. At this stage, although my partner and I were excited to have children we didn't want to put all our eggs in the one basket so to speak and in the 3rd week in June we were informed I had approx 5% of my eggs remaining and we need to seriously consider IVF. Devastated is the only word for it. IVF was not really an option &ndash; we didn't have that kind of money and I wasn't sure I had the emotional stamina for it. We were booked for our holiday the next day and decided to shelve it and discuss it more while we were away.</span><br /><br /><span>Now, here is where our rainbow baby makes an appearance. Day 2 of holiday and I haven&rsquo;t had my period. OH is wondering if everything ok?, as am I. My head is racing, it could be the flight, it could be the early menopause, after all I have hardly any eggs left!! So I leave himself by the pool and go to explore, while out I decide to pop into a chemist and get a pregnancy kit - back to the room and hey ho I am &ldquo;embarazada&rdquo;. After using google translate I discover I am 2 weeks gone. YEEHA!!</span><br /><br /><span>So with trepidation our journey begins&hellip;. Jump on to week 24 and I am at pregnancy Yoga class and in comes Bernie Burke of Blissful Bumps and Babies to talk to us about Gentle Birth. I will be honest at the start I was a little sceptical &ndash; affirmations pfft, visualization &ndash; yeah right!! But a positive role for your birth partner &ndash; now THAT caught my attention. Of course, I was in total denial, natural birth scared the hell out of me and I was freaked out by the thoughts of it. That combined with the fact I had never ever been in hospital before &ndash; EVER!! But I really liked the idea of my partner having a defined role, a positive active and informed part to play and advocate for me and the baby (this was more for me than him as I am not good at giving up control of something and my fear was I would exclude him from the process as a result. So the workshop was a way of helping us both).</span><br /><br /><span>I came home and told him about it. He was very open and encouraged me to book the course &ndash; which I did. My CDs and book arrived and I committed 1000% to gentle birth. To be honest I surprised myself how much I really got into it. Bernie was amazing and I loved the course and listening to the CDS. I found myself acting much calmer in work and at home. I had a sense of capability I had never felt before and most importantly I was now excited about giving birth and felt empowered to do it. My whole mental attitude had done a massive u- turn and I was advocating gentle birth to anyone who would listen to me. I would read birth stories on the FB page and then with tears in my eyes hand it over to OH to read; each story confirmed for me the power of natural birth and my ability to do it. Gentlebirth definitely made us a team in this pregnancy and encouraged me to read everything I could about birthing and to be aware of my options.</span><br /><br /><span>As the weeks went on I had great enjoyment doing my vision board and preparing for birth, purchasing my tens machine, buying my raspberry tea, my clary-sage oil to burn, almond oil for massage and getting my birth outfit organised. I had my bags packed, bounced on my ball every evening and listened to my tracks whilst falling into a deep and restful sleep.</span><br /><br /><span>Jump up to 35 weeks and we head in for a scan &ndash; all is fantastic, baby and I are doing great but baby is head up and not head down. Not to worry says my Ob Gyn, plenty of time, baby will probably turn but if not we may be looking at a section. No bloody way is what was going through my head as I was smiling away. I booked in for my acupuncture, got my moxa sticks, checked out spinning babies, headed to my yoga class for some support, booked in with a chiropractor for the Webster tech and of course listened to my gentle birth breech track. All means and methods were used to get this baba moving!!!</span><br /><br /><span>In the midst of all this Bernie, had a gentle birth meet up which was just what I needed. I went and had the support of other gentle birth mums and mums to be and Bernie emailed me on articles and information regarding c-sections and breech births etc. Again, GentleBirth was informing me, allowing me to advocate for me and my baby. I was doing my best to keep everything in perspective. I knew I had loads of time for baby to turn but on a level I was struggling. I genuinely felt that if I did not have the natural birth I spent the last few months preparing for mentally and physically then I had somehow failed. In my head I had not really given birth!! Why go through all this training and work so hard to possibly not have that option. My vision board seemed to mock me. I felt the right to birth my baby was being taken away from me even though nothing had been confirmed&hellip;.yet!! But there were so many voices and opinions and options. I was scared. Natural birth I had prepared for, a section I had not!!</span><br /><br /><span>Honestly, it took me those two weeks to get my head into the fact that a c-section is NOT a negative. The issue was me. I had blinkered myself to a natural birth, it was how I had visualized my birth and I was so positive that it was how it was meant to be but in true GentleBirth style you gotta have a plan A, B, C &hellip;. And this is real life, plans change, babies can be breech and Moma needs to adjust in a calm and confident way.</span><br /><br /><span>Week 37, scan, baby still breech. OB Gyn wants me in at 38 for an elective. That&rsquo;s a NO!! This baby is fine, healthy and happy. My partner will go along with this but I know he is anxious for us to both be safe and well. Everyone wants this baby out but me!! I manage to hold on till 39+2. I am now listening to my caesarean GentleBirth track which I love. I get it put on in theatre and my partner cannot believe how calm and confident I am going in- very chilled. I totally take it in my stride and in fact relish the challenge that is ahead of me in recovery as I now know I have the &ldquo;mindfulness&rdquo; tools to deal with it. We have our caesarean birth plan and the midwife was amazing in terms of following through on it. My Ob Gyn was very supportive throughout the procedure and I have to say at no point did I and do I now have any of those doubts I had previously about giving birth to our beautiful son Harry on the 24th of February at 9.02am. He was a healthy 7lb and 3 oz. We had immediate and continued skin to skin as did my partner as I was brought into recovery. He latched on immediately and I am breast feeding him away. All in the staff in the Rotunda were very supportive and open to GB.</span><br /><br /><span>This is our gentle birth story. I didn't get to experience surges or a show or my waters breaking but I did get to grow our baby and bring him into the world gently, calmly and confidently with love. GentleBirth empowered me to do that with belief in myself and my natural ability. I would do it all again in a heartbeat.</span><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[First Time Mum's GentleBirth]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/first-time-mums-gentlebirth]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/first-time-mums-gentlebirth#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Tue, 09 Jun 2015 22:48:18 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Uncategorized]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/first-time-mums-gentlebirth</guid><description><![CDATA[   &nbsp;&ldquo;Hi Bernie I have been meaning to e-mail you, N arrived at 8pm exactly, 36 weeks 4lbs 2oz.&nbsp; I went into spontaneous labour, I thought I had indigestion when I woke up that morning.&nbsp; I spent a few hours at home having brekkie and chatting with my parents, decided to go to hospital and check if all was ok about 1pm.&nbsp; Had trace and heartbeat was fine.&nbsp; Then they performed VE and I was fully effaced so they admitted me.&nbsp; My sister went and got us lunch and I a [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<span class='imgPusher' style='float:left;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;z-index:10;width:242px;position:relative;float:left;max-width:100%;;clear:left;margin-top:0px;*margin-top:0px'><a><img src="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/835987.jpg?224" style="margin-top: 5px; margin-bottom: 10px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 10px; border-width:1px;padding:3px; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -10px; margin-bottom: 10px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;display:block;"><br /><span style=""></span>  <strong style=""><span "font-size:20.0pt;line-height:107%;font-family:&quot;calibri="" light&quot;,sans-serif;="" mso-ascii-theme-font:major-latin;mso-hansi-theme-font:major-latin"="" style="">&nbsp;&ldquo;Hi Bernie I have been meaning to e-mail you, N arrived at 8pm exactly, 36 weeks 4lbs 2oz.&nbsp; I went into spontaneous labour, I thought I had indigestion when I woke up that morning.&nbsp; I spent a few hours at home having brekkie and chatting with my parents, decided to go to hospital and check if all was ok about 1pm.&nbsp; Had trace and heartbeat was fine.&nbsp; Then they performed VE and I was fully effaced so they admitted me.&nbsp; My sister went and got us lunch and I asked for a ball as I didn&rsquo;t have anything like that with me.&nbsp; I sat on ball and chatted to my sister and my husband came in around 3.30.&nbsp; I used the shower a few times, I had my birth preferences in a folder but had never discussed these with anyone.&nbsp; So talked them through with midwife.&nbsp; About 5.30 midwife asked if I would like to be examined again to consider moving to delivery room. I said ok, after the examination we walked to the delivery room and on the way midwife asked was I doing hypnobirthing.&nbsp; I used my breathing all the time and honestly felt relaxed and calm throughout.&nbsp; My waters went in the delivery room (naturally) and there was meconium so I had CTG.&nbsp; I delivered our little girl vaginally, tried gas and air in delivery room but didn&rsquo;t like it.&nbsp; Labour couldn&rsquo;t have gone better!&nbsp; .... &hellip;. N was discharged last week so we are finally enjoying time at home and I&rsquo;m delighted.&nbsp; Thanks for the class and for staying in touch.&nbsp; I found the last few weeks of pregnancy very stressful and the whole programme really helped me to stay calm and focus on the positive.&nbsp; I&rsquo;m so thrilled to have my gorgeous little girl here now.</span></strong><br /><span style=""></span><br /><span style=""></span></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[﻿﻿Get Up Stand Up Ladies ]]></title><link><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/get-up-stand-up-ladies-7-reasons-to-be-upright-for-birth]]></link><comments><![CDATA[http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/get-up-stand-up-ladies-7-reasons-to-be-upright-for-birth#comments]]></comments><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2015 23:00:23 GMT</pubDate><category><![CDATA[Active Birth]]></category><category><![CDATA[Birth]]></category><guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/blog/get-up-stand-up-ladies-7-reasons-to-be-upright-for-birth</guid><description><![CDATA[ 	 		 			 				 					 						          					 								 					 						  7 Reasons to be Upright for Birth...You have just grown a tiny person,&nbsp;You are Wonder Woman,&nbsp;Stand up and be proud!&nbsp;&#65279;&nbsp;OK so you may or may not feel like adopting the Wonder &nbsp;Woman stance for your entire labour and birth but here are 7 great benefits to being upright during labour.&nbsp;&nbsp;&#8203;   					 							 		 	   &nbsp;1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Feeling Calm, Confident and in Control! &nbsp; [...] ]]></description><content:encoded><![CDATA[<div><div class="wsite-multicol"><div class="wsite-multicol-table-wrap" style="margin:0 -15px;"> 	<table class="wsite-multicol-table"> 		<tbody class="wsite-multicol-tbody"> 			<tr class="wsite-multicol-tr"> 				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:45.563909774436%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div><div class="wsite-image wsite-image-border-medium " style="padding-top:5px;padding-bottom:10px;margin-left:0px;margin-right:10px;text-align:left"> <a> <img src="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/7189820.jpg?225" alt="Picture" style="width:auto;max-width:100%" /> </a> <div style="display:block;font-size:90%"></div> </div></div>   					 				</td>				<td class="wsite-multicol-col" style="width:54.436090225564%; padding:0 15px;"> 					 						  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><br /><span>7 Reasons to be Upright for Birth...</span><br /><br /><span><font size="3">You have just grown a tiny person,&nbsp;<br /></font></span><span><font size="3">You are Wonder Woman,&nbsp;</font></span><br /><span><font size="3">Stand up and be proud!&nbsp;</font><span id="selectionBoundary_1422312943965_863441762747243">&#65279;</span></span><br /><br /><br /><span>&nbsp;OK so you may or may not feel like adopting the Wonder &nbsp;Woman stance for your entire labour and birth but here are 7 great benefits to being upright during labour.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><br />&#8203;</div>   					 				</td>			</tr> 		</tbody> 	</table> </div></div></div>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:left;"><strong>&nbsp;1.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</strong><span><strong>Feeling Calm, Confident and in Control! &nbsp;</strong></span><br /><br /><span>GentleBirth Mums know all about the 3 Cs!</span><ul><li>Mums who choose their own position during labour, will rarely lie on their backs and have reported more feelings of confidence and being in control. &nbsp;</li><li>Stress hormones are lowered when adopting an upright position, allowing oxytocin and endorphins (birth hormones) to flow. &nbsp;</li><li>Women feel part of their birth team and less like a patient when they&rsquo;re not lying in bed.</li></ul><span>You can imagine it could be difficult to feel confident being the only person in the room on your back with no underwear on.&nbsp;</span>&#8203;</div>  <span class='imgPusher' style='float:right;height:0px'></span><span style='display: table;z-index:10;width:auto;position:relative;float:right;max-width:100%;;clear:right;margin-top:9px;*margin-top:18px'><a><img src="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/1445287573.png" style="margin-top: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px; margin-left: 0px; margin-right: 0px; border-width:0; max-width:100%" alt="Picture" class="galleryImageBorder wsite-image" /></a><span style="display: table-caption; caption-side: bottom; font-size: 90%; margin-top: -0px; margin-bottom: 0px; text-align: center;" class="wsite-caption"></span></span> <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;display:block;"><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><strong>2.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;Shorter labours!&nbsp;</strong><br /><br /><span>In a study by Lawrence et al 2013, it was found women who birthed in an upright position were found to have shorter births than those lying down by up to 1 hour &amp; 20mins.&nbsp;&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><ul><li>The effect of gravity on the baby within the uterus helps to create more efficient surges.<br />&#8203;</li><li>Stands to reason (excuse the pun) that gravity would help when you look at how we are designed &ndash; it&rsquo;s a much smoother exit for baby!&nbsp;&nbsp;<a href="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/stages_of_labour_-_crop.jpg">When you&rsquo;re on your back it&rsquo;s like trying to push baby up a hill!</a></li><li>Back to point 1 those birth hormones are flowing and helping to nudge baby down by increasing the power of your surges.&nbsp;</li></ul></div> <hr style="width:100%;clear:both;visibility:hidden;"></hr>  <div class="paragraph" style="text-align:justify;"><br /><br /><br /><br /><span><strong>3.&nbsp; Less chance of Distress to your Baby&nbsp;</strong></span><br /><br /><span>Getting off your back allows maximum circulation between you and your baby, maximum blood flow and oxygen to your baby. </span><br /><br /><ul><li><span>Your baby is </span><span>54% less likely to have abnormal fetal heart rate patterns.</span></li><li>It reduces the risk of <a href="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/vein_compression.jpg" title="">aorto-caval compression&nbsp;</a> - &nbsp;</li></ul> <span>You know how you&rsquo;ve been told not to lie on your back during pregnancy, it usually gets quite uncomfortable from somewhere in your second trimester anyway.&nbsp;&nbsp; The reason is that the main abdominal artery and vein can be compressed by the uterus and the weight of the baby limiting blood flow.&nbsp; This can result in </span><span>low maternal&nbsp;</span><span>blood pressure, feeling faint, sweating and&nbsp;dizziness&nbsp;and<span> may also affect baby&rsquo;s heart rate. &nbsp;It doesn&rsquo;t sound like a good idea at the best of times never mind when you&rsquo;re in labour.&nbsp; This does not occur when a woman is in a side lying or upright position. </span></span><br /><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><strong><span>4.<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>More Comfortable Labour!</span></strong><br /><br /><span>Movement into comfortable positions will help you to manage your sensations.&nbsp; Think about what you did the last time you had a cramp in your leg &ndash; you probably got up wiggled your foot until the cramp eased&hellip;</span><br /><br /><ul><li><span>Women tend to move and sway during their surges.&nbsp; <a href="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/upright.jpg" title="">Standing, leaning on your partner, squatting, hip circles on your birthing ball and rocking on all fours</a> can all be comfortable positions for labour. &nbsp;</span></li><li><span>Mums who use movement in labour find their labour sensations more manageable and have less need for the epidural and other pain relief.&nbsp;</span></li><li><span>Birth partners can easily support mums and use comfort measures like massage and counter pressure.</span></li></ul><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><strong><span>5.<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>More Room for Baby! </span></strong><br /><br /><span>Standing, squatting, kneeling, all fours and sitting facing forward in a chair all increase space in the pelvis.</span><br /><br /><ul><li><span>Squatting can increase the space in the pelvis by up to 30%!</span></li><li><span>More room makes it is easier for baby to get into the perfect position for birth.&nbsp; (point 2 &ndash; shorter labours!)</span></li><li><span>Babies who start out in the OP (back to back) position have more room to turn and surges help baby turn in the uterus when the mum is supported. &nbsp;Helping the baby to turn increases mum&rsquo;s comfort level as well.</span></li></ul><br /><span><strong>6.<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></strong></span><span><strong>Decrease Chance of Assisted Delivery by 23%! </strong></span><br /><br /><ul><li><span>In&nbsp; 2012 Cochrane Review of 22 studies including over 7,200 women, those who were in an upright position for labour were 23% less likely to have a forceps or vacuum-assisted delivery.</span></li><li><span>An assisted delivery may be necessary if baby is in distress or if the mum is exhausted after a long labour or long pushing phase.</span></li><li><span>An</span><span>&nbsp;assisted delivery can be prevented by avoiding birthing on your back and common interventions such as the epidural or amniotomy&nbsp;&nbsp; (artificial rupture of membranes).</span></li><li><span>The benefits of avoiding assisted deliveries are less damage to the pelvic floor and a gentler birth for baby.</span></li></ul><br /><strong><span>7.<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Decrease Chance of Episiotomy by 21%</span></strong><br /><br /><ul><li><span>In the same review it was found that women who were upright in birth were 21% less like to have an episiotomy.</span></li><li><span>&nbsp;</span><span>An Episiotomy is a surgical cut to the perineum as baby crowns.</span></li><li><span>Disadvantages are increased pain after birth, more likely to cause 3rd / 4th degree tears, infection and longer healing times.&nbsp;</span></li><li><span>To avoid an episiotomy, birth off the bed, no purple pushing &ndash; slow controlled &ldquo;pushing&rdquo; phase, labour in water, practice perineal massage and pelvic floor exercises during pregnancy.</span></li></ul><br /><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><span><a href="http://www.blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie/uploads/3/1/6/0/31601697/birthing_on_your_back.jpg" title="">Reasons NOT to Lie Down in Labour:</a></span><br /><br /><span>&middot;<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Because there&rsquo;s a bed in the room! </span><br /><br /><span>&middot;<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Because you&rsquo;ve seen it on TV and in the movies! </span><br /><br /><span>&middot;<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Because &ldquo;Everyone&rdquo; gives birth like that! </span><br /><br /><span>&middot;<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Because &ldquo;insert name&rdquo; told you to!&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><br /><span>To sum it all up choose whatever&nbsp;position&nbsp;you feel comfortable in. &nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span>&middot;<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Lie down if you need to rest or you&rsquo;ve had the epidural</span><br /><br /><span>&middot;<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Choose a side lying position </span><br /><br /><span>&middot;<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Use pillows / peanut ball to create space in your pelvis</span><br /><br /><span>&middot;<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </span></span><span>Get your partner &amp; midwife to help you change sides every half hour.</span><br /><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span>To learn more about comfort measures for labour, having an upright epidural birth and navigating the system consider doing a GentleBirth workshop.&nbsp; </span><br /><br /><span>Contact <a href="mailto:bernie@blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie" title="">bernie@blissfulbumpsnbabes.ie</a> for more info</span><br /><br /><span>Further Reading:&nbsp; </span><br /><br /><strong><span>Whole, Healthy and Intact - Avoiding Perineal Trauma by Tracy Donegan - </span></strong><br /><br /><a href="http://www.gentlebirth.ie/index.php?route=ac_cms/article&amp;b_id=3" title=""><span>http://www.gentlebirth.ie/index.php?route=ac_cms/article&amp;b_id=3</span></a><span> </span><br /><br /><a href="http://evidencebasedbirth.com/what-is-the-evidence-for-pushing-positions/" title=""><span>http://evidencebasedbirth.com/what-is-the-evidence-for-pushing-positions/</span></a><span> </span><br /><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><em><span>References:&nbsp; 2012 Cochrane review,&nbsp;</span></em><a target="_blank" href="http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22592681" title=""><em><span>Gupta et al.</span></em></a><em><span>&nbsp;, de Jonge and Lagro-Jansenn 2004; Green and Baston 2003; Green et al. 1990.</span></em><span> Lawrence et al 2013</span><br /><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><span>&nbsp;</span><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>